This past weekend I was at
Grambling State University accepting my late father’s induction into the Sports
Legends Hall of Fame as a contributor. It was one of the most memorable experiences I have
ever had. It has been 13
years since I have been on the campus and seen many friends, classmates, and
former co-workers of my father. He
was a 1963 graduate of Grambling and a member of an historical 1961 team that
won the NAIA National Championship led by eventual NBA World Champion and
Basketball Hall of Famer Willis Reed.
He worked at the University in three different capacities lastly as
Athletic Director replacing his former basketball coach Fred Hobdy.
Grambling meant more to him than it
just being his alma mater.
While living in Washington, DC he was a very active alumnus and wanted
to contribute Grambling anyway he could.
He started the alumni chapter in Washington, DC and organized
fundraisers. Anyone he met that
went to Grambling he embraced like he had known them for years. I always wondered why Grambling meant
so much to him, it was more than just being his alma mater. Hillary Bossier, who was a baseball inductee in the 2013 class,
attended Grambling when my father did.
Over breakfast he mentioned he knew my father lost both of his parents
before he turned four years old and that he told him that Grambling was family
to him. That brief conversation
brought everything full circle for me.
It was bigger than just where he received his college education and why
those relationships with many classmates he kept for a lifetime. Why he took the time to explain the
historical context of many of the Grambling graduates and what they
accomplished in sports and the impact it had on society. That regardless of where someone
attended college that they could be successful person and contribute to
society.
I am a proud graduate of Hampton
University and appreciate my experience there more and more over the
years. I must admit from an
athletic standpoint no Historically Black Institution has the history of
Grambling. Just sitting at a
meeting over the weekend I was in a room with three men who won Super Bowls
with Doug Williams (Redskins), Willie Brown (Raiders), and James “Shack’ Harris
(Ravens, Executive). During the
banquet Willis Reed (Knicks) and Larry Wright (Bullets) were NBA
Champions. Coach Eddie Robinson
won more games than any other college coach when he retired just to name a few
accomplishments. The Grambling “G”
has universal recognition from the marching band and success of many of their
football teams and players’ success after Grambling. A truth that many do not like to hear or realize is that
athletic success does more to help a university than academic success does to
help athletics. A lesson I learned
from my father growing up.
It is well documented that enrollment and revenues increases when
athletics are successful, which helps the academics at
institutions such as facilities and programs. Whether you’re a
sports fan or not, when your respective alma mater has athletic success there is a sense
of pride and accomplishment. An example is the
NCAA Men’s Basketball Tournament. When a school makes a successful run alumni proudly boast about their school's success.
Over the years since my father has
passed I have met people from every period in his life. All of them loved him and in
their own way and appreciated something he did for them. It could be as simple as calling their
child on their birthday every year.
Assisting one of the players he coached make a college choice when they
were not even considering attending college before playing for him. Those that were fortunate to meet him
will agree that he was truly one of a kind. Charismatic, funny, brilliant, and loving are just a few
adjectives. Whether it was
his hometown of Rayville, LA or Grambling he never forgot where he came
from. He took me to his hometown
to meet people that impacted his life so I could have knowledge of his
roots. I remember one day we were
in the store when I was about 10-11 years old and he told me whenever something
happened to him that I would know my Daddy. He kept his word!
Regardless of distance or circumstance nothing came between us and I am
forever grateful.
It was appropriate that he was
inducted as a contributor into the Sports Legends Hall of Fame because it cannot
be quantified. It was about the
legacy left behind and impact on people they will always remember. It has been almost 14 years since he
passed and Grambling has taken numerous steps to acknowledge him. An Endowed Professorship in the
Physical Education Department, Memorial Golf Tournaments, and now Hall of
Famer. My desire is that his
induction will inspire others to contribute in their own way to whatever his
dear to them and leave a legacy behind because he was truly Hall of Fame
worthy.
Jamaal, this is a truly heart-warming memorial dedication. You've always spoken highly of your father and credited him for your manhood, maturity, wisdom and insight into the world. He is evident through you in your character and charitable works. May the legacy continue.
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